{"id":1398,"date":"2024-05-24T20:03:56","date_gmt":"2024-05-24T20:03:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/?p=1398"},"modified":"2024-05-24T20:03:56","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T20:03:56","slug":"my-mom-sent-me-a-photo-of-my-dogs-on-the-front-porch-is-my-reaction-justified","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/?p=1398","title":{"rendered":"My Mom Sent Me a Photo of My Dogs on the Front Porch \u2014 Is My Reaction Justified?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I\u2019ve been married to Tom for three years. Before our marriage, I had my two dogs, Max and Bella, who are like my children. Tom always seemed to understand this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before a two-week work trip, Tom reassured me, \u201cI\u2019ll take care of Max and Bella. You go and do your best at work.\u201d I felt relieved. But once I settled in at my hotel, my mom texted, \u201cIs everything okay with Max and Bella?\u201d She sent a picture of them tied up outside, looking sad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I called Tom, trying to stay calm. \u201cWhy are Max and Bella tied up outside?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI thought they needed some fresh air,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019ll bring them back inside soon.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The next few days were filled with worry. Despite Tom\u2019s assurances, I couldn\u2019t shake off my unease. My mom visited again and found the house messy. I asked her to take the dogs to her place. \u201cI can\u2019t trust Tom right now,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I returned home early, Tom was surprised. \u201cWhere are Max and Bella?\u201d I demanded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re outside,\u201d he replied. I revealed my mom had them. Tom accused me of overreacting. \u201cMaybe there isn\u2019t space for you in my life,\u201d I retorted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I left for my mom\u2019s house, feeling a sense of relief. The next day, I called a lawyer. \u201cI\u2019m filing for divorce, Tom,\u201d I said firmly. \u201cI can\u2019t do this anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tom moved out by the end of the week. Alone but with Max and Bella, I knew I had made the right choice. My dogs are my family, and anyone who can\u2019t accept that doesn\u2019t belong in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Was my decision justified? After seeing how Tom treated my dogs, I believe it was. They are my family, and I need someone who respects that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been married to Tom for three years. Before our marriage, I had my two dogs, Max and Bella, who are like my children. Tom always seemed to understand this&#8230;. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1399,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recipes"],"views":1854,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1398"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1398\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1400,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1398\/revisions\/1400"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1399"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flavortwistr.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}